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Welcome to Fatherhood!!!
Fathers play a pivotal role in a
couple's transition into parenthood.
But sadly it is a role that is often ignored or undervalued. Fathers often have
to shoulder responsibilities on their own that were previously shared by their
partners, for example having to cope with concerns about finances, work and time
pressures. Dads are often just as stressed and sleep deprived as their partners, but they
receive much less understanding and support .
Whereas their partners can often
share any concerns about parenting with sympathetic female friends, lots of Dads
don't have the same opportunities. Try talking to your partner or close friends,
you might find that they share more of your experiences than you thought. You
can also refer to the "Couple Support" section for more information on
stress management and other coping skills.
Take
our Dad Quiz if you need a laugh, or find
support for
your stage of the journey. Each stage is designed to support both Mums and Dads
(as well as baby!) and it is best if you read the whole thing. There are
additional resources at the bottom of each section. You could even read
ahead if you want to prepare yourself for the next stage. Often the only support we need is information
- so we can feel validated, or to better understand our partners or children.
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RESOURCES:
Books:
Fatherhood
- Steve Biddulph
Father Time -
Daniel Petre
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